Most importantly, when there are problems that you can't resolve. One member of a couple often calls me to say, "we fight all the time". That is a sure signs that the couple is trying to win at … [Read more...] about Signs That You Need Marriage Counseling
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How Does Change In Couples Happen?
People call me all the time to ask what to do about their partner- "how can I make Him or Her change? Of course, no one can make someone else change. We can only change ourselves. However, if we … [Read more...] about How Does Change In Couples Happen?
How Does Marriage Counseling Help Communication?
Traditional psychology has believed since time began that problems exist within individuals. This DSM descriptions of mental problems is built on this theory. However, with the rise of the « Systems » … [Read more...] about How Does Marriage Counseling Help Communication?
Why Are Men So Sensitive To Female Anger?
Women ask me all the time," why does my husband get so defensive when I get mad at him?" To begin with, I don't find anger to be a very useful emotion to be used with anyone. Possibly at times with … [Read more...] about Why Are Men So Sensitive To Female Anger?
What Makes Marriage Work?
People ask me all the time, "What makes marriage work?" What if I stop loving him/her? What clearly does NOT make marriage work is believing that one must be in love all the time to make the marriage … [Read more...] about What Makes Marriage Work?
How To Select The Best Marriage Counselor
Good marriage counseling is about teaching couples how to negotiate in order to accomplish getting their needs met. Teaching good skills for marriage is not about what is right or wrong but about … [Read more...] about How To Select The Best Marriage Counselor
The Safety Of Expression – An Exercise For Dating Couples
The objective of this article is to provide an activity for couples--both those thinking of marriage, and those who already are married who want to enhance their relationship to do so in the arena of … [Read more...] about The Safety Of Expression – An Exercise For Dating Couples
Special Concerns For Dating Couples Approaching Marriage
The objective of this article is to outline the issues that create the most anxiety in couples considering marriage. By: Susan Adams, M. Ed. Special Concerns For Dating Couples Approaching … [Read more...] about Special Concerns For Dating Couples Approaching Marriage
Building Trust for Dating Couples Planning Marriage
The objective of this article is to provide an exercise for couples - dating or married - for assessing trust that exists and building trust. Summary: We all carry different levels of trust based on … [Read more...] about Building Trust for Dating Couples Planning Marriage
Achieving Good Sexual Communication
The objective of this article is to help couples achieve a satisfying sexual relationship. By: Susan Adams, M. Ed How To Communicate Sexually In Marriage Summary: A mutually satisfying sexual … [Read more...] about Achieving Good Sexual Communication
